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When parents divorce, child custody can be an issue. Each parent might want the child, but the question of where the child lives turns on the best interests of the child, not the parents.
Can my spouse and I agree on child custody and visitation arrangements?
You and your spouse can agree on child custody and visitation arrangements, but the court always has the authority to disregard it and make its own child custody or visitation order - in the best interests of the child.
If we don't, what will happen?
If you and your spouse don't agree on child custody, often the judge will order the parents to try to resolve their child custody differences through a court operated mediation program. In any case, the judge will make her own order based upon the best interests of the child. In many cases, the court will take evidence from professionals, such as psychologists or social workers. If you have questions about child custody laws or family law matters, consult with a family law attorney in your area.


